RELATIONSHIP

Here I am, writing again about someone I love so much. I could never get enough from her. But the true love ought for Allah only. Allah’s loves for his servants is beyond our love towards other people

I am so grateful that Allah allows me to meet someone whom are so responsible, so wise, so wonderful. It’s great to have someone that you could lean on. She is special in so many ways that she could never realize. She inspired me in the ways that she could never imagine.

Yesterday was her birthday and I gave her an eulogy speech. She said that she was so touched when she read it. When you love someone, show your love in appropriate ways, a way that they could feel your appreciation, your love and your honesty.

When you create a relationship, it means that you are ready and willing to embrace and tolerate with the flaw someone have, and cooperate with the ability or the decent they have. When you are in a relationship either friendship or partnership, you must be tolerate with each other. You cannot always be the dominant in the relationship. If you are being too dominant, you will have no time or ways to get to know your partner/friend. You will only know how to make them act the way you want.

I have an experience, where my friend was always being dominant. Even if they made a mistake, they won’t easily seek forgiveness as if the mistake weren’t their fault. I still love this relationship. But eventually you will become tired if you are always being the one that trying hard to make up with someone.  if they can’t give full commitment in this relationship, the next possible step to do is stop, walk away. Because you’ve done your part. You have give full commitment. It’s just the matter of that person who couldn’t appreciate you.