RELATIONSHIP

Here I am, writing again about someone I love so much. I could never get enough from her. But the true love ought for Allah only. Allah’s loves for his servants is beyond our love towards other people

I am so grateful that Allah allows me to meet someone whom are so responsible, so wise, so wonderful. It’s great to have someone that you could lean on. She is special in so many ways that she could never realize. She inspired me in the ways that she could never imagine.

Yesterday was her birthday and I gave her an eulogy speech. She said that she was so touched when she read it. When you love someone, show your love in appropriate ways, a way that they could feel your appreciation, your love and your honesty.

When you create a relationship, it means that you are ready and willing to embrace and tolerate with the flaw someone have, and cooperate with the ability or the decent they have. When you are in a relationship either friendship or partnership, you must be tolerate with each other. You cannot always be the dominant in the relationship. If you are being too dominant, you will have no time or ways to get to know your partner/friend. You will only know how to make them act the way you want.

I have an experience, where my friend was always being dominant. Even if they made a mistake, they won’t easily seek forgiveness as if the mistake weren’t their fault. I still love this relationship. But eventually you will become tired if you are always being the one that trying hard to make up with someone.  if they can’t give full commitment in this relationship, the next possible step to do is stop, walk away. Because you’ve done your part. You have give full commitment. It’s just the matter of that person who couldn’t appreciate you. 

Alhamdulillah

Alhamdulillah

Every test is a blessing. I learnt from my past. I learnt from my mistakes. Indeed, humans are not perfect. No matter how much people love you, they could never love us as much as Allah loves us. Some people took us for granted while some are not, hardly to find this kind. Some people needs us only when they are alone. Some people only cooperate with the speciality we have,but couldn't tolerate and embrace the flaw we have.
At some point, you will realize that you have done too much for someone that the next possible step to do is to stop and walk away. Find your own happiness. Those people who couldn't tolerate and embrace the flaw you have, they are not worth to be part of your life. Because they can simply leave you whenever they want. Stop from trying hard to make up with someone who doesn't even appreciate your hard working. Leave them alone.
There's no benefit of having sadness when you have Al-Quran.

Obstetric Fistula

Assalamualaikum...
This week have been cruel to me. So many things happened yet i survive. Wanna talk about Obstetric Fistula. An obstetric fistula is a hole between the vagina and rectum or bladder that is caused by prolonged obstructed labor, leaving a woman incontinent of urine or feces or both.

For women with obstructed labor, labor that goes unattended, the labor can last up to six or seven days. The labor produces contractions that push the baby’s head against the mother’s pelvic bone. The soft tissues between the baby’s head and the pelvic bone are compressed and do not receive adequate blood flow. The lack of blood flow causes this delicate tissue to die, and where it dies holes are created between the laboring mother’s bladder and vagina and/or between the rectum and vagina. This is what produces incontinence in a fistula patient.

See more at here: Obstetric Fistula Foundation